Patience & Fortitude

Gratitude in the Void

Today in the United States of America, it is Thanksgiving, but in truth there are many things I’m not grateful for. Such as, the deaths of my parents. No, I will never be grateful for that. Thanksgiving is the holiday I remember most from my childhood.It was the...

Linkage: Death Rituals Unusual and Rare

Not much to add insofar as editorial comment, as these sometimes extreme mourning rituals kind of speak for themselves. I think it is food for thought, though, about the ubiquitous need we have to find some dramatic marker for the end of life. As...

The place of anger in grief

Author and blogger Victoria Noe, who runs the Friend Grief website (which you should definitely visit!) recently posted to her facebook wall about her upcoming book release. The book is titled “Friend Grief and Anger: When Your Friend Dies and No One Gives a...

Look Where You Can

Author David G. Hallman recently discussed a book he was given to review, Tear Soup – A Recipe for Healing After Loss. I don’t know the book but I understood his reservations about reviewing it at first, as it struck him as a children’s book. He read it...

Creating the Purpose for Why Things Happen

One of the worst platitudes is “everything happens for a reason.” The implication is that there is some grand plan out there, usually designed by some grand omnipotent being, that justifies why every horrible event happens. As an atheist, I have always found this idea...