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Keely Has Found Her Way (in memoriam)

Keely Has Found Her Way (in memoriam)

On Friday afternoon, August 1st, 2025, I said good-bye to my precious Keely. There was no one reason why. It was simply a matter of age and mortality. She was ready. I never will be. I hoped she would live to August 15th, an entirely selfish desire that one could...
30 Years Later

30 Years Later

“Oh shit, it’s 2024 isn’t it?” Gina, glancing up from her laptop, gave me a confused look. “Uh, yeah? Has been all year. Why?” “In about a month, my mother will have been dead for thirty years.” We looked at each other in shock. She never knew my mother. Most people...
The Happy Ending (Grieving Futures)

The Happy Ending (Grieving Futures)

I am slowly posting the entirety of Grieving Futures: Surviving the Deaths of My Parents, here on Patience & Fortitude for free. General warnings are in place: this book address grief, mourning, self-harm, anger, poverty, and pet death, all in the context of...